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Decision-making tips for a better and happier life (part 1)

Do you feel overwhelmed each time you have to make a decision? Feelings of doubt and anxiety cloud your judgment..and sometimes holds you back from achieving success or change in your life. Making decisions is a critical life skill as making the right decision is often considered the key to a successful and fulfilling life. In this post, we will delve into the need for improving decision-making skills and how to develop them so that you can make better choices to put you on track to a successful, happy, and fulfilling life incl. your career development.


There are multiple factors and points we need to consider for a better decision-making




1. Identify what you want vs. What you don't want in life

2. Understand the consequences of your decisions

3. Recognize the signs that it's time to make a change

4. Make a pros and cons list before deciding

5. Evaluate how your decision could affect others around you

6. Don't be afraid to take risks and try new experiences


Rule #1. Identify what you want vs What you don't want in life

It sounds so simple but it doesn't. Including myself, we don't really know what we want as it's not a game of choosing either one but balancing it in most cases. Discovering the balance between what you want and what you don't want in life can be a transformative journey of self-discovery. It's essential to become aware of our desires, as well as our limitations, in order to develop a vision for our future that genuinely aligns with who we are. This process of introspection not only empowers us to make more deliberate choices but also helps us avoid pursuing the wrong paths. Taking the time to pause and reflect on our true aspirations and potential roadblocks allows us to make thoughtful decisions that lead to a more fulfilling, purpose-driven life. As we embrace our inner honesty and trust our intuition, we can confidently navigate through life's ups and downs, continuously moving closer to our version of happiness and contentment.


It is also important to remember that our dreams and aspirations are ever-evolving and can change over time. Therefore, it's essential to regularly reconnect with yourself in order to stay aligned with what brings you joy and fulfilment. By getting clear on who we are and where we want to go, we can identify the steps needed to move forward confidently.


Rule #2. Understand the consequences of your decision

In this posting, you may find the word 'EV', expected values which can be measured from monetary perspectives or qualitative perspectives.


We all encounter a multitude of choices every day, ranging from trivial to life-changing. When we make decisions, it's essential to pause and ponder the possible outcomes - not only for ourselves but for others as well. Taking the time to consider the consequences of our actions allows us to be more responsible individuals, and in turn, contribute to creating a more harmonious and understanding world. Plus, it helps us avoid regrets and unexpected backlash from our choices. Remember, the outcomes of our decisions, whether big or small, can ripple far beyond our own lives, affecting others and even future generations. So let's embrace our power to make sound decisions, openly chat about the potential repercussions, and help one another in navigating this amazing yet unpredictable journey called life. Finally, it is important to remember that life will inevitably have its highs and lows. The key is to keep an open mind and persevere through difficult moments. Life can be unpredictable and challenging at times, but ultimately, we have the power to shape our own paths by being honest with ourselves and making informed decisions.


Rule #3. Recognize the signs that it's time to make a change

Life has a way of sending us signals when it's time for a change and learning how to recognize those signs is crucial for growth and personal development. At times, you may feel a lingering sense of dissatisfaction or an inexplicable heaviness that weighs you down, making it clear that your current circumstances no longer serve your best interests. It's important to be in tune with these emotions, as they can be powerful messengers guiding you towards better, more fulfilling experiences.


There are some examples or ways to recognize the signs:

Pay close attention to patterns of dissatisfaction, escalating stress levels, declining mental and physical health or broken relationships, as these are all indicators that you might need to re-evaluate your current direction in life. Every morning you don't want to go for work and you feel miserable during tge regular weekly meeting. No progress for several years in your role. These are the signs. Embracing change can often be daunting, but recognizing the signs that it's time for a transformation is the first, empowering step towards embracing a more meaningful and enriching existence.


.....to be continued.

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